Relationships
When you’re struggling with someone close to you,
it can be hard to understand what’s really going on…
…and even harder to know how to make it better.
(And if you’re dealing with the death of a loved one or beloved pet,
you may wonder how you’re ever going to live without them — or if you’ll ever feel good again.)
Relationship struggles can come in many different forms…
Trouble with love and intimate relationships
Painful family relationships
Problems with your kids
Friendship stress or drama
A difficult divorce or breakup
Conflicts with someone at work
Grief from loss of a loved one, friend or beloved pet
Delays in attracting new love (your soulmate)
I want you to know that you’re not alone.
We all struggle in our relationships sometimes — even with the people we really love.
And we’ll suffer losses in one form or another — a death, breakup, end of a friendship or change in a close relationship where it’s just not working anymore and we have to let it go.
If you’re like many of my clients, you may have tried…
-
talking the problem through
- individual or couples therapy
- reading books about love and relationship
- confiding in your friends
- getting support from your family
- asking for spiritual guidance or getting readings
You may be struggling to understand why nothing ever really changes no matter what you do…
…or even if the relationship can be brought into harmony and balance again.
Relationships offer us such great promise — love, friendship, companionship and joyful connection. They teach us how to love, laugh, and share our lives.
They also take us into those deeper, hidden and hurt places that we still need to heal.
When you’re in relational distress (or you’re going through an end of a relationship before you’re ready), it can throw you into a tailspin.
You may be feeling overwhelmed and at a loss for what to do.
If you’re having issues in your love relationship now, you may be…
- feeling a lack of intimacy
- constantly arguing and fighting
- struggling to feel heard and understood
- unable to get your needs met
- having commitment issues
- dealing with affairs, bad habits or other harmful behaviors
Or you may be having issues with other relationships in your life…
- worrying about your kids (a troubled teenager or child with emotional issues)
- feeling betrayed or treated badly by a friend
- stressed out about your parents
- dealing with difficult people at work
- at odds with a neighbor
- lonely and looking for new love
Here’s what I’d like you to know…
You’re going through this relationship challenge for a reason.
Relationships can be confusing because each person is trying to get their own needs met.
But we don’t always understand what those needs are – because some needs are clear and known, while others are not.
Have you ever wondered why you get so upset and fight about small things – like doing the dishes, putting the toilet seat down or taking out the trash?
Or maybe you feel REALLY upset about something that someone else doesn’t seem to think is such a big deal (and you can’t understand why).
It’s probably because it’s not about those little things. It’s about something bigger, deeper, older, hidden…
…and this is the part we need to talk about.
It might seem like what the other person is doing (or not doing) is causing the problem – and you are desperately trying to get them to change.
You might be thinking that if they would just…
- stop doing that “something”
- understand where you’re coming from
- learn how to talk to you with respect
- show up in the relationship
- know how much they’re hurting or scaring you…
…then everything could go back to the way it was before — or the way you want it to be now.
Or, you might be seeing this great potential in them. You’re trying to help them get there, but they’re digging in their heels and resisting every step of the way — and it’s causing conflict and stress between you.
It seems like it should be so simple, but it isn’t. It’s so much more complicated than it looks on the surface.
There’s a reason why you are drawn to certain people,
and why your paths have crossed.
It doesn’t matter what type or level of relationship it is.
If you’re struggling, it means there’s potential for healing and transformation within this relationship.
But it’s tricky to know what’s really going on so you can get to the bottom of it.
Most people are struggling to fix a problem on the surface level
when the healing really needs to happen
on a different, deeper level.
When that person doesn’t do the small things you ask for (or won’t stop saying or doing things that hurt you), it jabs into something else that’s still unhealed – and it stings!
This place that you were hurt before – in childhood or previous relationships – is still there, and now this situation is triggering it all over again.
And here’s something else to consider…
Before you were born, you chose to work on
certain things within your relationships.
You might have picked the person you’re struggling with now so you could work something out together.
This could also be a karmic relationship – where you have entered into a soul agreement to meet them at a certain time for a specific purpose.
(Have you ever met someone for the first time and felt instantly drawn to them? Like you already know them? Well, you probably did know them before! And now you’re meeting again… as planned.)
Whether you’ve met before or are coming together for the very first time…
…you have carefully chosen your most significant relationships to heal, to love, and to grow.
This soul agreement is there with your kids, too. Before they are born, you agreed to help each other grow personally and spiritually through your relationship.
And it’s the same with your parents, family members and other significant people in your life.
When you can see your relationships in this way, it brings more meaning and purpose to even the most difficult and painful relationships. And it will help you create something good out of every single relationship you enter into.
At this point, you might be wondering…
- “What’s really going on in this relationship?”
- “Did I enter into a soul agreement and if so – what is it?”
- “Where are those hurt places that I still need to heal?”
- “Why do my kids struggle and how can I help them?”
…and many more questions like these.
For more than 30 years, I’ve helped thousands of clients who are struggling in their relationships get these answers so they can transform their relationships.
When you fully understand the true reasons and the deeper dynamics at play beneath the surface of your troubled relationships, it’s much easier to know what to do and how to work with them… so you can actively create more love, harmony and enjoyment.
Imagine…
- Enjoying more love, joy and happiness in your romantic relationship – because you know how to love and be loved.
- Having fulfilling and meaningful friendships that enrich your life – so you can have fun and receive the support you need.
- Helping your kids because you know what’s really going on inside their hearts and minds – and you know how to guide them when they struggle.
- Healing your broken heart as you work through the end of a relationship, friendship or marriage – so you can open your heart to love again.
- Attracting a new and perfect love (soulmate) relationship – because you’ve prepared and are clear about what you want and need.
- Communicating with a loved one, friend or pet who has crossed over – you can check in, know that they’re okay now, and share your love with them.
- Navigating difficult family, work or other relationships effectively – because you know how to work with them without getting stressed out.
It’s all possible.
And it’s all waiting for you.
Or, if you're ready to explore more deeply, I invite you to schedule a complimentary Discovery Call with me.
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- what’s going on and the areas you want help with.
- the vision you have for your new improved life – full of vibrant health, wellbeing, happiness, abundance and spiritual fulfillment.
- the biggest roadblocks that you think are keeping you stuck.
- my experience with others who are dealing with similar types of problems or conditions you are going through, including the process we did and the results they got.
- a plan for you to “get there” and start moving forward.
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“…when a friend recommended Donna I was anxious to talk with her. That, now at least a decade ago, has taken me on a path of help and healing for myself, my relationships and my family. Initially Donna helped me simply deal with the stress of being a counselor. After each session I would feel “cleaned out” and ready to go once again.
And then, one day five years ago my adult son was in a terrible accident. He has been through legal issues ever since which have challenged him, and me, in ways we couldn’t have believed. Donna was able to work on him, his children, and me, and helped us all move through that very difficult time. I will be forever grateful for the care and comfort and healing she has provided to us all.”
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